As our parents begin the transition to their golden years, we may experience something of a role reversal and take on the position of caregivers. Caring for our elderly parents at home is an admirable way to ensure their around-the-clock comfort. However, this care can come with emotional and financial challenges, which you can navigate with our list of smart ways to take care of your aging parent.
1. Look into Financial Resources
Moving your parent into your home may present some financial challenges. Your parent’s Social Security benefits may be enough to cover the additional expenses, but if this isn’t the case, you may be able to take advantage of other financial resources. In addition to government assistance, your parent may also be eligible for other senior programs such as meal delivery services.
2. Plan for Schedule Adjustments
You may need to adjust your schedule to accommodate your new role as caregiver. Depending on your parent’s health and level of dependability, you may have to give them doses of medication at the proper times, wake them during the night to use the restroom, and even change up your meal plans to fit their dietary requirements. Building these extra responsibilities into your schedule from the start will prevent you from feeling overwhelmed.
3. Look into Legal Options
If your parent is living with you, obtaining power of attorney may be pragmatic. Depending on the circumstances, they may wish to give you control over things such as their finances and health care. The question of medical power of attorney, in particular, is extremely important—your parent may want you to have the ability to make medical decisions if they’re rendered unable to make such decisions themselves. If they live with you, it’s likely that they’ve disclosed their wishes, and having this power will enable you to act upon those desires.
4. Outfit Your Home
You’ll likely need to make a few adjustments to your home. If your parent uses a walker or a wheelchair, you’ll want them to be able to navigate your home easily, so don’t leave anything on the floor. If they can’t use the stairs, make sure everything they need is available on the ground level. You may also have to install rails in the bathroom and/or shower for them to hold on to. If your parent suffers from incontinence, stock up on reusable waterproof underwear and sheets.
5. Ask for Help
You love your parent and are happy to take care of them. However, caring for another adult can be difficult at times. If you ever feel overwhelmed, it’s okay to ask for help. Reach out to other families in the same situation or attend a support group. Using the meal services we mentioned above can give you a reprieve from meal planning once or twice a week. Remember, there will always be someone around who’s willing to lend a hand when you need it.
